lotusdragonfly
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I win small stuff, it seems people are doing this for a few months and rake in the big prizes. I've been at this for years and I only get the small stuff. I'm ready for a real win now.
OK, I'll post my whine - I've been putting it off in hopes things would turn around, and they sorta did - a win I thought I lost out on was recently confirmed when I asked about it, but I don't have it yet and haven't heard back...
For perspective, I remind myself that in 2009, I had a loooooooooong losing streak that ended right before I was about to post in this thread last year - my GP for $10,000 - and prior to that, a 7 week slump ended with a NICE $700 camera win, so I just keep plugging along, and hope I time things right and hit again!!!
Ways I deal with the frustration of a dry spell:
1} I get outside of my own head by helping others. Either by voting, answering questions, or just getting a little silly. :crazytongue: :laughing:
2} I avoid the winners circle. It's not that I'm not happy for other members, it's just that I don't need the constant reminder that I'm not one of them - for now. :crazytongue:
3} I hard charge on sweeps, going through all the categories and getting a sense of satisfaction/accomplishment when I get all caught up.
4} I take a break from the computer, since it's gone from being fun to being a chore.
If you keep pushing yourself to enter and things don't change, you will most likely burn out and quit, whereas if you make a decision to take a break for a day or 2, you are still in control.
I *usually* find I return after my mini "vacation" that I'm refreshed and can see things more clearly, so the little things don't get to me, and I enjoy instead of dreading entering my sweeps. :sunny: