Is my wife cheating???

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This is not the path you want to take. Oh sure an 18 yr old likes me at my age is what you are thinking. Remember this is all new. You are not happy of what your wife did. You need to look at realty. You say maybe you should get back together, maybe you both should seek consuling before you decide to do anything further.

Just my advice, take it or leave it.
 
As if things were not weird enough! So I decide to go and talk to my wife yesterday about getting back together. She did not know I was coming. As I'm approaching the house, I notice that Leslie(the 18 year old that's been hitting on me pretty hard) is standing on our porch talking to my wife. I kept driving and they did not notice me because they were laughing and talking together. I don't know what the hell is going on now. How does this girl even know where I live and why were her and my wife talking? Something isn't right.
 
As if things were not weird enough! So I decide to go and talk to my wife yesterday about getting back together. She did not know I was coming. As I'm approaching the house, I notice that Leslie(the 18 year old that's been hitting on me pretty hard) is standing on our porch talking to my wife. I kept driving and they did not notice me because they were laughing and talking together. I don't know what the hell is going on now. How does this girl even know where I live and why were her and my wife talking? Something isn't right.

Well I was trying not to post on here. But oh well.
Sounds to me like she is setting you up.
 
Why don't you just call a meeting with your wife at a coffee shop and ask the 18yr. old to meet you there too at the same time (not informing her your wife will be there)... then you all can lay things out on the table and see what's up......
 
I have a better idea. I asked Leslie to come over Saturday night. I'll be able to tell if something is going on. I'll keep you guys posted. I'll set her up before she sets me up.
 
I have a better idea. I asked Leslie to come over Saturday night. I'll be able to tell if something is going on. I'll keep you guys posted. I'll set her up before she sets me up.

:error: Bad idea! Do not meet her at your house. Go to a public place where others can see you. If she is trying to set you up for some criminal offense being alone with her is a really bad idea.
 
No one is here to judge you in any way ~ never feel strange to come here! We want you to feel comfortable to come here and sweep if nothing else!
Good luck to you!

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OK I owe an apology or two, first to gerardp, I did not ever mean you where not telling the truth, just that the whole thing is wild. I am truely sorry if it came off any other way. I would never intentionally hurt someones feelings. I hope you find the peace you need and the answers you want. And wolfie, yes you are right, I got carried away and lost track of the subject. for that I apologize to everyone and anyone who I upset, hurt or any other problem. I only hope good things for everyone. Some times my onery side gets me in trouble and I forget people don't always know I am teasing. So again my apology and I will be quite and not bother anymore. God bless you all. tobby1
 
Ger,

Just wondering how you are holding up? How did that weekend go? I hope things are looking up for you.
 
Ger,

You asked for our support, some was good and some was bad. Now you totally cut us out from what has been happening. I don't feel that is fair to the people that were giving you positive support. Hope all is well with you & most important your children.
 
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