gosweepwin
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Calling the police was good. You will want to document everything like this that he does. Rocky and his parents saying mean things about you carries no weight because you aren't doing anything they can document and report. Keep a journal and write down incidents, dates, and witnesses.
Also, record any threatening phone calls or voice mails he leaves for you. If you're recording yourself, you don't need his permission to tape him. The more evidence you have documenting his erratic behavior, the easier it will be for you and Kailey to escape.
I'm really sorry you're going through this. My best friend had a similar situation a few years ago and always stresses how important it is to document everything. She also says that you have to resist the urge to be nice when he wants to "come in for just a minute" and so on. If it isn't best for you and your child, don't agree to his requests. My friend eventually got out and got full custody of their son, but it really wore her down.
Also, record any threatening phone calls or voice mails he leaves for you. If you're recording yourself, you don't need his permission to tape him. The more evidence you have documenting his erratic behavior, the easier it will be for you and Kailey to escape.
I'm really sorry you're going through this. My best friend had a similar situation a few years ago and always stresses how important it is to document everything. She also says that you have to resist the urge to be nice when he wants to "come in for just a minute" and so on. If it isn't best for you and your child, don't agree to his requests. My friend eventually got out and got full custody of their son, but it really wore her down.