: Hi
Bunnytoes, what operating system are you using? If you are on IE6, you will have problems with our forum. Admin is going to do a major forum change soon which should alleviate the problems.
A trick I learned before upgrading to IE7 was to delete something in your pm in box and then the new pm's will show up. I know it's crazy, but it is being worked on.
The one thing I can say is that Admin always posts updates in the announcement forum. So, if you ever want to know what is up here, check there.
Again, welcome to SA. Sorry you are having some problems. I hope we can help you work through them quickly! :smt001