ambersmom35
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it seems like you don't win unless you pay money for this site.which i can't do because i am on disability but .i'll keep trying to win something just because its fun 

Ways I deal with the frustration of a dry spell:
1} I get outside of my own head by helping others. Either by voting, answering questions, or just getting a little silly. :crazytongue: :laughing:
2} I avoid the winners circle. It's not that I'm not happy for other members, it's just that I don't need the constant reminder that I'm not one of them - for now. :crazytongue:
3} I hard charge on sweeps, going through all the categories and getting a sense of satisfaction/accomplishment when I get all caught up.
4} I take a break from the computer, since it's gone from being fun to being a chore.
If you keep pushing yourself to enter and things don't change, you will most likely burn out and quit, whereas if you make a decision to take a break for a day or 2, you are still in control.
I *usually* find I return after my mini "vacation" that I'm refreshed and can see things more clearly, so the little things don't get to me, and I enjoy instead of dreading entering my sweeps. :sunny:
tyI don't pay for this site. Don't give up sometimes it can take a while to get a win. I have won small things from song down loads to a trip to the All star races in NC they paid for everything. So don't give up it might just take some time, and I love the ones that just show up on the door step that you don't even know you have won. Keep trying and smiling. Good luck to you.